Dear Annie: Attending one of my best friends’ wedding would be a significant financial hardship, and I feel stuck

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1. Anchorage Daily News

   Dear Annie: Attending one of my best friends’ wedding would be a significant financial hardship, and I feel stuck ↗ (opens Anchorage Daily News)

   Published Oct 11, 2026

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   Advice from Annie Lane.

2. AL.com

   Dear Annie: I resent proving my friendship means paying to attend a pricey destination wedding ↗ (opens AL.com)

   Published Oct 11, 2026

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   I worry she will be hurt, and if I am honest, I worry our friendship may never feel quite the same afterward.

3. Cleveland Plain Dealer

   Dear Annie: Should I skip besties’ expensive, overseas, wedding to save my own marriage? ↗ (opens Cleveland Plain Dealer)

   Published Oct 11, 2026

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   I worry she will be hurt, and if I am honest, I worry our friendship may never feel quite the same afterward.

4. NJ.com / Star-Ledger

   Dear Annie: What can I do when 20 years of friendship meets one very expensive wedding invitation? ↗ (opens NJ.com / Star-Ledger)

   Published Oct 11, 2026

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   Am I being selfish if I do not go, or foolish if I do?